Lately I saw a lot of my friends struggling in their relationships. A lot of break ups or dates that suddenly disappeared without an explanation. Which in my opinion is very disrespectful. We are not anymore 15 or 18 and everyone has to take responsibility for their actions. 

While I was texting with a friend who is desperate to get a second chance with her boyfriend I received this text from another friend who got hurt. I have to say this text has so much truth in it:

If a man doesn’t call you it’s because he doesn’t want to call you. If he doesn’t invite you to go out it’s because he doesn’t want to see you. If he treated you like shit it’s because he doesn’t care. If he lets you go, it’s because he doesn’t want to be with you. When a man says „I’m not ready but you are the love of my life and the only one I want, but now is not the right time“- it’s simply because he doesn’t want  you. Don’t keep playing his confusing games. Don’t justify him. When a man wants to be with a woman, he stays with her without lies, excuses, and complications. Stop being genuine and naive, and stop justifying his every excuse and complication and put yourself first. You DO NOT need someone that doesn’t know what they want, you DO NOT NEED someone that doesn’t see your worth. You deserve a man that knows your worth and fights for you everyday. Stop breaking your own heart for someone who probably won’t even be as good as you expect and give yourself an opportunity to be happy and be with someone who actually deserves you!

So for all the girls out there struggling: YOU’R JUST MORE!!! By the way the same applies for boys 😉
And for all the ones who found their soul mates already: Just love them unconditionally and appreciate every moment.

XOXO
Sonja

Jacket: New Look via Asos
(I removed the chystal stones)

Sweater: made by my mum
Skirt: Vince via Bungalow Gallery
Shoes: Dior
Bag: Hermes Birkin